Say it becaue there could be no tomorrow !

Saying I love you is one of the most wonderful yet oddly unnerving experiences for someone in a new relationship. It says that you care about a person to an extent that they need to take notice. It also says that you might think more of them than they think of you. Therein lies the problem!

As beings of conscience, we do not like rejection. It hits too close to home – too close to our deepest fears – to have it happen. Saying I love you is like asking rejection over for a cup of tea. It slips in the door rather quietly then slaps you upside the head so hard you can’t be sure which way is up. All the while you’re left wondering how and why it is you brought this on yourself. Beings of conscience have natural instincts to preserve their well being and making verbal gestures of love that could go unrequited sets this instinct off.

Yet saying those magical words is just what you find yourself ready to do. Maybe it struck you when you were feeling tomatoes in the produce department at your local grocery store or perhaps it came over you while on the bus into work. Whatever the case, when it hit, you knew it was true. You probably weren’t around this special person at the time of enlightenment, otherwise you would have leaned over and said I love you right away, right? Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe you were and you did and you got stunned silence in return or a tight ‘I think you’re really great, too.’ The point is that only one thing matters here. That is that someone loves another person and has or should have the courage to say it.

How long is life? For most, not nearly long enough. In that time you can only say I love you so many times. Again, it’s never enough. If you feel it in your heart, you owe it to yourself to say it. Love doesn’t belong inside of you. Sure, you need to love yourself, but it’s so much better to love someone else. Let them know when you feel it. Say it because there could be no tomorrow. Say it because it feels right. Don’t look for it in return. It will find you in time.

The best advice that can be given is to be open about how you feel. Worrying about how it will be received isn’t the point. Say it when you mean it. I love you is the greatest thing one person can say to another. Even fear of rejection can’t stand in the way of that.

By:  Jenn Malko

Tips to keep your friendship…

How many friends do you have? Mmm… I know it’s just hard for you to count your people around. No single person can live their life alone… And why do we need friends? The answers maybe are in pages long and every person may have their own answer. By the way, have you ever thought of how to  keep or even  to strengthen  your friendship? Well, these are some clues to keep your frienship.

Don’t overlook SILENCE…

Sit In Silence

Without question, one of the simplest, most peaceful, and, we believe, most leveraged ways to maintain a loving connection is to practice the art of sitting together, in silence. This beautiful yet seldom used practice brings forth compassion for one another while simultaneously strengthening the bond between you.

Think about the millions of words the average couple must share with one another over the course of their relationship: talking, arguing, negotiating, planning remembering, bickering, and so forth. Few couples, regardless of how many years they spend together, will set aside any time whatsoever to simply sit quietly together, without saying a word. Yet, this silent communication may be one of the most important things you can do together as a couple. It can also be one of the most powerful and effective ways to communicate.

The practice itself is remarkably simple. You simply sit next to one another in a quiet, comfortable location. You can hold hands if you wish, but that’s entirely up to you. You then close your eyes and clear your minds as well as you can. Breathe together, slowly and peacefully. Just sit, quietly and lovingly. You can do this together for a few minutes or longer, if you so desire.

Something magical happens when two people who share a connection sit together in silence. Defenses tend to drop and hearts open wide. By the time you open your eyes, you’ll feel more peaceful and loving—to one another as well as to yourselves. Any friction you may have between you will have dissolved, or will at least be headed in that direction. It will be easier to see the innocence in each other and to love your partner for who he or she is, rather than insisting that they change in order to meet your expectations. You’ll discover that any irritation you may have been feeling—or any tendency you had to sweat the small stuff—will be fading away. You’ll feel wiser and more compassionate and will probably feel like smiling.

Sitting together in silence has become one of the cornerstones of our relationship. We don’t do it every day, nor do we make a big deal out of it, or talk about it very much. We just do it as often as it occurs to us—because it feels nice and keeps us connected at the heart. We usually sit together first thing in the morning while we’re drinking our coffee.

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Word of the day…

” In virtually every area of your life, the more you give away, the more you get back.”

Wayne W. Dyer

Words of the day…

“A friend is someone with whom you dare to be yourself.”

Frank Crane

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Just another language !

I don’t have to ask what is this, as it’s a well-known sign

Identical Twins

Weekend song

Twins are so cute… I love them…

Words of the day…

” Your reputation is in the hands of others. That’s what a reputation is. You can’t control that. The only thing you can control is your character.”

Wayne W. Dyer

Weekend gift ;)

Bon sro lanh oon!

I love you!

Je t’aime!

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or ici in Doc

What does this mean?

??? ” Action speaks louder than words.” ???